Some Ties Can Change Lives
Human and humane may sound similar, but there is a vast distinction between a ‘human’ and a ‘humane’ connection.
There is no dearth of people around us. However, even when surrounded by friends and family, people sometimes find themselves vulnerable to sorrow. Why?
Because not every association is a supportive bond.
In recent times, humanity has been on the decline, trapped in the clutches of greed and envy. Relationships are being built on the foundation of selfishness. In such a world, genuine relations are difficult to find but are not yet extinct.
There may be a few, but they are precious, adding meaning to our lives.
It reminds me of a beautiful quote by Marcel Proust, a French novelist –
“Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.”
The author compares the impact of positive forces in our lives to that of a nurturing gardener. Seeds grow into plants when gardeners provide them with utmost care. People who are a source of joy and support do the same for our souls.
Such connections are not like acquaintances. Besides cultivating happiness in our lives, they bring a wave of freshness and a renewed spirit. They listen to our thoughts and appreciate our efforts. Moreover, they encourage us to delve deep within ourselves and discover our self-worth.
In the toughest hours of our lives, these people provide an emotional refuge for us to fall back on. In times of despair, they are the torchbearers of our hope. They become our safety net, allowing us the space to heal and recover from the challenging events we have faced.
But are these people always those closest to us?
No, they need not be. They may be strangers who helped us when we needed it the most.
Not all connections are based on blood ties or long-time familiarity. They may simply emerge out of pure emotion, an attachment fostered through concern or shared grief.
We should recognize their importance and be thankful for their presence. Kindness is repaid with kindness. We should reciprocate their compassion with small, generous efforts whenever possible.
Not every connection is worth cherishing. But some are to be remembered forever, because they leave an impression so profound and unforgettable.
Undoubtedly, life is transient. But even if those people fade away, their goodness lingers, serving as a fond reminder that humanity lives on.